I’m appalled that
I’d never heard of Gad Beck. Not
only was he an important figure in LGBT history, he was a hoot.
Until his recent
death just shy of his 89th birthday, Beck was the last known gay
Jewish survivor of the Holocaust.
Also a resistance fighter, Beck’s experiences during World War II were
such that he quipped, “Only Steven Spielberg can film my life—forgive me,
forgive me.”
He’s forgiven. Because he’s right.
Consider his attempt
to rescue his Jewish boyfriend.
According to Wikipedia, Beck
donned a Hitler Youth uniform and entered a deportation center to free Manfred
Lewin.
Thereby setting a
ridiculously high bar for standing by your man.
Beck asked the
commanding officer to release Lewin for use in a construction project, and he
must’ve been convincing, because the officer agreed.
When they got
outside, though, Lewin said, “Gad, I can’t go with you. My family needs me. If I abandon them now, I could never be
free.”
The two parted, not
saying goodbye. “In those seconds,
watching him go, I grew up,” recalled Beck.
If you’re weepy
already, don’t read the next sentence.
Lewin and his whole family perished at Auschwitz. I warned you.
Beck’s father was
Jewish, and his mother converted to Judaism. Under the Nazi racial laws, Beck was a half-breed, and he
and his father landed in a holding compound on the Rosenstrasse in Berlin. He was released after the non-Jewish
wives of inmates protested in the street.
They set a pretty
high bar, too.
Beck learned from
those women. He said, reported The Jerusalem Post, “The Rosenstrasse
event made one thing absolutely clear to me: I won’t wait until we get deported.”
He joined a
resistance youth group, and helped Jews in Berlin survive. Beck noted that “as a homosexual, I was
able to turn to my trusted non-Jewish, homosexual acquaintances to help supply
food and hiding places.”
It helps to have
friends in homo places.
A Jewish spy working
for the Gestapo betrayed Beck shortly before the war ended, and he was held at
a Jewish transit camp. After the
war, he assisted Jews emigrating to Palestine, and he himself lived in Israel
from 1947 until 1979, when he returned to Germany.
I don’t know why he
returned. But at his death he was
survived by Julius Laufer, his partner of 35 years, which means the two men got
together in 1977, two years before Beck went back to Europe. It would be gratifying to think he
returned to Germany for love, considering he left it for the opposite reason.
But if he returned
just because he missed the beer, that’s okay, too.
As the director of
the Jewish Adult Education Center in Berlin, Beck organized gatherings of gay
singles at the center. “He was
open, sweet and would speak with everybody,” said the editor of Berlin’s Jewish
magazine, who also recalled Beck’s fondness for waving the Israeli flag at Berlin’s
annual Pride parade.
He sounds like the
kind of guy you’d want to have at a party. If he could keep the flag-waving to a minimum.
Beck’s
heart-centeredness combined with a notable wit. On a German talk show, he said, “The Americans in New York
called me a great hero. I said no
. . . I’m really a little hero.”
Of his life as a
homosexual Jew, Beck averred, “God doesn’t punish for a life of love.” He wasn’t the first to say that, and he
won’t be the last, but it’s tough to imagine the line suiting anyone better.
Puts my complaints about the gay partner health insurance tax into perspective. Wow.
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