Friday, December 28, 2018

Operation Sappho

A local TV news reporter realized that women occupy five of the top public service positions in Seattle and King County. So he sat down with Seattle's mayor, police chief and public schools superintendent, along with the University of Washington president and the King County sheriff, to discuss this historic moment.

During the interview, it became clear that four of the five women are openly lesbian.

Okay, that world takeover thing? Alert HQ that we have a beachhead here in the Puget Sound.

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

This Week's Quote

I love the excess of Christmas. The shopping season that begins in September, the bad pop star recordings of Christmas carols, the decorations that don't know when to come down.

Mo Rocca

Source:  Azquotes

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

This Week's Quote

Nothing says holidays like a cheese log.

Ellen DeGeneres

Source:  Reader's Digest

Friday, December 14, 2018

The Meeting that Keeps on Giving

After Tuesday's testy Oval Office meeting between Donald Trump, Nancy Pelosi, Chuck Schumer and Mike Pence, wags mocked the vice president for being completely silent during the gathering, comparing him, seasonally, to an Elf on the Shelf.

I love it. And it occurs to me that, had Pence been sitting on a longer chair, he could be described with another rhyme:  a closet case on a chaise.

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

This Week's Quote

This is horrifying! Trump, Pelosi, and Schumer are just carrying on arguing as if Mike Pence is still alive! Somebody help him!

Mark Harris

Source:  Twitter

Monday, December 10, 2018

Theological Question

At the moment my General Gayety page on Facebook has 666 followers.  I'm not sure whether that makes me the Antichrist or all of you.

Wednesday, December 5, 2018

This Week's Quote

I think of birth as the search for a larger apartment.

Rita Mae Brown

Source:  The New Beacon Book of Quotations by Women

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

Looking Ahead

My local newspaper is inviting readers to submit headlines they'd like to see in 2019. Here's the first one that leapt to mind:  In Surprise Twist, Ozzy Osbourne Raptured, Mike Pence Still Here.

Monday, December 3, 2018

Milo and Money

Openly gay and relentlessly despicable, Milo Yiannopoulos is more than $2 million in debt, reports Towleroad.

Don't gloat too soon. I figure Milo is just one self-loathing, misogynistic, alt-right, barely-hung sugar daddy away from solvency.

Thursday, November 29, 2018

O Christmas Tree

Guess who donated this year's Rockefeller Center Christmas tree from their property north of New York City? Married, Puerto Rican lesbians.

It's the stuff of nightmares for Ebenezer Trump.

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

This Week's Quote

People love to make comedians out to be miserable, dark, twisted people. And I just—I think a lot of people struggle with depression and mental illness and have issues and problems within their family. The mailman has it. Your neighbor has it. It's just that comedians have a microphone.

Tig Notaro

Source:  Brainyquote

Tuesday, November 27, 2018

The Milk Man

Harvey Milk, California's first openly gay elected official, was assassinated 40 years ago today.

What do you think Harvey would say about the midterm elections earlier this month? After all, Colorado elected the nation's first openly gay governor. Kansas sent an openly lesbian Native American to Congress. Arizona produced the first openly bisexual member of the U.S. Senate. Little old New Hampshire voted in two openly transgender state legislators.

I suspect what Harvey would say is this:  "You're welcome."

Monday, November 26, 2018

Sunday, November 25, 2018

Whatever Works

Though I'm a total needle-phobe, I dragged myself to the pharmacy to get a flu shot. As I waited in the tiny room, a bundle of nerves, for the tech to come in and jab me, I spotted something that suddenly made me feel better:  Wonder Woman Band-Aids.

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

This Week's Quote

The world is full of people who would like nothing better than to spend six hours on a golf course. I would rather be chopping shallots.

Ted Allen

Source:  Brainyquote

Monday, November 19, 2018


Tomorrow, Nov. 20, is Transgender Day of Remembrance. I expect, to mark the sad day, President Donald Trump will solemnly read the names of the 22 transgender individuals who were murdered in America in 2018. Then he will offer cogent remarks on the need for tolerance and understanding.

Then he will step out of that parallel universe, return to ours and tweet about transgender terrorists massing at the border to vote in Florida and kneel at Eagles games.

Sunday, November 18, 2018

Allies at the Top

In her new memoir, former first lady Michelle Obama writes that on June 26, 2015, she and daughter Malia, then 16, snuck out of the White House to join the thousands celebrating the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage.

Michelle has made it clear she doesn't want to run for president.  Is it too soon to urge Malia?

Wednesday, November 14, 2018

This Week's Quote

I'm miserable if I'm not in love and, of course, I'm miserable if I am.

Tallulah Bankhead

Source:  Women's Wicked Wit

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

This Week's Quote

The Colorado cake baker who refused to bake a cake for a gay couple now has a gay governor.

Rev. Jes Kast

Source:  Twitter

Monday, November 5, 2018

Election Fervor

Here in Washington state we vote by mail, so I've already voted. My ballot has been received and processed.

Believe me—I checked.

I'm sorry that I have no polling place to go to tomorrow, no opportunity to commune with other irate souls as we perform our democratic duty.

So I'm creating an online polling place. Please help me get some warm fuzzies by writing in the comments where you're voting. Feel free to add any thoughts about the experience, and/or your hopes.

If you like, say who or what you voted for. I'm happy to share that my ballot would anger a certain carrot-colored cad.

Thursday, November 1, 2018

Too Harsh?

I've been pondering what should happen to any gay person who doesn't vote in these midterm elections.

I believe that person must surrender his or her toaster oven.

Wednesday, October 31, 2018

This Week's Quote

I dressed up as a veterinarian for a Halloween costume party. I had the lab coat. I got a couple of stuffed animals for patients and put bandages on them.

Tracy Chapman

Source:  Brainyquote

Thursday, October 25, 2018

Jenner Jaundiced

In an op-ed piece for The Washington Post, Caitlyn Jenner writes that she was hopeful the Trump administration would help trans people.

"Sadly, I was wrong."

That came as a surprise only to Jenner and a guy named Fred in Sheboygan. Most of us were crystal clear what Trump's election meant for LGBT people.

"The reality is that the trans community is being relentlessly attacked by this president," Jenner writes. "He has made trans people into political pawns as he whips up animus against us in an attempt to energize the most right-wing segment of his party, claiming his anti-transgender policies are meant to 'protect the country.' This is politics at its worst."

Believing she could work with this administration "was a mistake," she now knows. It would be easy—so, so easy—to belittle Jenner for being gullible. This rich, white professional celebrity actually thought that other rich, white professional celebrity would be on her side.

But I'm not making further fun of Jenner. I take this mea culpa as a sign that her eyes have truly been opened, and maybe now she can do some real good. Her confession, presumably spurred on by that leaked anti-trans HHS memo, also underlines how horrible Trump has been to trans people that even the relentlessly Republican Jenner is done with him, and with the Republicans who keep him in power.

So I say welcome to the fight, Caitlyn. We can certainly use a woman with a decathlete's stamina.

Wednesday, October 24, 2018

This Week's Quote

Look, I'm a black lesbian. I'm pretty sure you know who I'm voting for.

Wanda Sykes

Source:  Late Night with Seth Meyers

Monday, October 22, 2018

I'm So Glad We Had This Time Together

Last night I went to see Carol Burnett at Benaroya Hall in Seattle. The 85-year-old comedy queen showed clips from "The Carol Burnett Show" and answered questions from the audience.

She told a story I'll never forget. Years ago, when in Washington, D.C., to perform at an inaugural event for President Johnson—Lyndon, not Andrew. It wasn't that long ago—she and her pal, actress Julie Andrews, were staying in the same hotel.

While sitting and waiting by the elevator for comedian Mike Nichols to join them, Andrews suggested to Burnett that they pretend to be kissing when the elevator door opened. As they saw the elevator near their floor, they went into a clinch.

The door opened. But they heard no reaction from Nichols. Untangling, they looked up to see Secret Service agents. And behind the agents was Lady Bird Johnson, the first lady.

As Lady Bird made her way down the hall past the apparently amorous female pair, she turned and asked, "Aren't you Carol Burnett?"

"Yes ma'am," Burnett responded. "And this here's Mary Poppins."

Friday, October 19, 2018

The Rainbow Wave

At this time in America, when it seems like so many politicians have boarded the train for Crazyville with a stop in Cruelty Junction, I take heart in the LGBTQ Victory Fund's announcement that during this election cycle openly LGBTQ candidates ran for office in all 50 states and the District of Columbia.

This is the first time that's happened in U.S. history.

I'm not crying, you're crying.

Wednesday, October 17, 2018

This Week's Quote

My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.

Dan Savage

Source:  Brainyquote

Thursday, October 11, 2018

The 11th of October

It's National Coming Out Day.  It's also National Sausage Pizza Day.  Feel free to celebrate one with the other.

Wednesday, October 10, 2018

This Week's Quote

They need to read the Scriptures; where it says in Matthew, chapter 4, verse 17, it says: "Shut the fuck up." That's the King James version, by the way.

Margaret Cho

Source:  Wikiquote

Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Swift as Lightning

In the 24 hours after Taylor Swift posted on Instagram that she's voting for Democratic congressional nominees in her home state, over 65,000 people registered to vote.

I don't know whether to be thrilled or appalled.

Saturday, October 6, 2018

The Trump Thump

If you're depressed right now about Brett Kavanuagh's ascension to the U.S. Supreme Court, know this:  I'm about to make you even more depressed.

The Washington Post wrote that it was Donald Trump's attack on Christine Blasey Ford that made the difference. His "36-second off-script jeremiad proved a key turning point toward victory for the polarizing nominee . . . turbocharging momentum behind Kavanaugh just as his fate appeared most in doubt."

Going into attack-dog mode on a woman who had the guts to detail her sexual assault in front of the world got Trump the conservative ideologue he and conservatives wanted. Viciousness paid.

Advisers told him not to attack her personally, but at that Mississippi rally Trump "relied on his own visceral sense of the moment" and mocked her, and it worked, "shifting the national discussion from scrutiny of Kavanaugh’s honesty and drinking habits to doubts about Ford’s memory."

In my view, Trump is an evil instinctive genius. His mentor, the vile closet case Roy Cohn, must be so proud as he watches Trump from a location well south of heaven.

So now we have a firmly conservative Supreme Court, a president with every reason to be even more belligerent going forward and a Senate that dismisses sexual assault of women.

Prozac, anyone?

Friday, October 5, 2018


It appears certain that Brett Kavanaugh is headed to the Supreme Court.  That means the court will lurch to the right and my stomach will lurch with it.

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

This Week's Quote

What this country needs is more unemployed politicians.

Angela Davis

Source:  Brainyquote

Monday, October 1, 2018

The Gay Addenda

This terrifically funny tweet has been lighting up Facebook.

Given my LGBTQ bent, I feel the need to add two points.  First, a fair number of lesbians—and straight women—didn't read past "ladies," so we need to get word of the riot to them.

Second, a portion of gay men read through the whole thing.  But that's good.  In the LGBTQ experience, the best riots include drag queens.

Thursday, September 27, 2018

"We Pray in the Name of Jesus"

This morning as Christine Blasey Ford prepared to state her accusations against Brett Kavanaugh before the Senate Judiciary Committee, Pat Robertson asked his "700 Club" viewers to join him in a special prayer.

"Throw confusion into those who are bringing false accusations against a future Supreme Court judge," Robertson prayed.

God heard him and thought, "Oh Pat.  Nobody's more confused than you."

Wednesday, September 26, 2018

This Week's Quote

In the interest of fairness and equal time, Ben & Jerry's is also coming out with flavors for some conservative politicians. Here's the one they made for House Speaker Paul Ryan: Vanilla. And Sen. Mitch McConnell: They went with Vanilla. And Vice President Mike Pence got Blinding White Vanilla — now with extra vanilla.

James Corden

Source:  Newsmax

Wednesday, September 19, 2018

This Week's Quote

I love reading; it's a great way to avoid writing.

Tony Kushner

Source:  Brainyquote

Monday, September 17, 2018


If it were a man accusing Brett Kavanaugh of sexual assault, Mitch McConnell would be walking around saying, "Kavanaugh?  Kavanaugh Who?"

Thursday, September 13, 2018

Low-Key Celebration

Since I know lesbians from around the country read this blog, I must not exult over the fact that my beloved hometown team won the WNBA championship last night.  I will be restrained, and just casually mention that the SEATTLE STORM stomped that other team, and SUE, NATASHA, BREANNA, JEWELL, ALYSHA, SAMI, KALEENA, CRYSTAL, JORDIN, NOELLE, COURTNEY and MERCEDES are goddesses on earth, and every other team in the league should bow down to THEM.

See?  I'm the model of reserve.

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

This Week's Quote

In the name of Jesus, you Hurricane Florence, we speak to you in the name of Jesus, and we command the storm to cease its forward motion and go harmlessly into the Atlantic.

Pat Robertson

Source:  The Hill

Monday, September 10, 2018

Spreading the News

Last week was a busy one in American news, what with that anonymous New York Times op-ed, Bob Woodward's book, the Brett Kavanaugh hearings and Barack Obama's return to the political stage.  Owing to all this red, white and blue hubbub, you might've missed important news from the wider world.

And I can't have that.

Last week India's Supreme Court unanimously struck down the country's colonial-era law banning gay sex.  Chief Justice Dipak Misra declared the law, known as Section 377, was "irrational, indefensible and manifestly arbitrary."

It gets even better.  Beyond decriminalizing consensual gay sex, the justices ruled that gays are to be accorded all the protections of the Indian Constitution.

If Queen Victoria were alive, this would kill her.

Naturally there was rainbow-hued joy all over the world's second most populous nation.  Predictably there was also religious indignation.  Conservative Hindus, Muslims and Christians pledged to fight the ruling.

There we gays go again, bringing age-old enemies together, whether in Mumbai or Jerusalem or Atlanta.  We just have that gift.

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

This Week's Quote

Now Trump’s saying Democrats are going to be “violent” if they win big in November? What are we going to do? Throw our PBS tote bags at them?

Bette Midler

Source:  Twitter

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

Raising Cane

USA Today reports that two Malaysian women were caned in public yesterday, their punishment under strict Islamic law for "trying to have sex."

In addition to the physical pain, the humiliation, the degradation and the shame, the two women apparently didn't even succeed in having sex.

That should've been punishment enough.

Sunday, September 2, 2018

Dairy Queen

Beth Ford is the first openly lesbian leader of a Fortune 500 company, having been named the CEO of Land O'Lakes.  If you see her, butter her up.

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

This Week's Quote

Think what a better world it would be if we all, the whole world, had cookies and milk about three o'clock every afternoon and then lay down on our blankets for a nap.

Barbara Jordan

Source:  Brainyquote

Monday, August 27, 2018

Magic Moment

Two fellows named Nick and John married at Prestonfield House in Edinburgh yesterday, and who should crash their photo shoot but J.K. Rowling.

Apparently she was having lunch there, but I prefer to believe she apparated specially for the occasion.

Friday, August 24, 2018


Donald Trump said if he were impeached the stock market would crash, and Rudy Guiliani said Americans "would revolt" against impeachment.

Pish tush.  If they wanted to terrify me over the prospect of impeachment, all they had to say was two words:  President Pence.

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

This Week's Quote

The United States was founded by the brightest people in the country—and we haven't seen them since.

Gore Vidal

Source:  Brainyquote

Tuesday, August 21, 2018


Paul Manafort has been found guilty on eight counts, and Michael Cohen implicated Donald Trump while pleading guilty to his own eight counts.

Suddenly I'm inordinately fond of the number eight.

Thursday, August 16, 2018

August 16, 2018

Today Aretha Franklin died at the age of 76, and Madonna turned 60 years old.

That thundering you hear is gay men running to their mirrors.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

This Week's Quote

My sex life is now reduced to fan letters from an elderly lesbian who wants to borrow $800.

Groucho Marx

Source:  Wit

Saturday, August 11, 2018

Spaced Out

On Thursday Vice President Mike Pence announced plans for a new branch of the American military, a Space Force.

President Trump wanted to put Elroy Jetson in charge of it, but since Pence fears Elroy is gay, the administration will offer the job to The Great Gazoo.

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

This Week's Quote

I don't like the saying keep your friends close and enemies closer. I want my enemy on a different planet.

Wanda Sykes

Source:  Azquotes

Sunday, August 5, 2018

Lie in Ruins

The Washington Post  asserts that the number of lies Donald Trump tells has recently increased. The president is making an average of nearly 7.6 false or misleading claims per day.

If I lied at that clip my tongue would fall off.  And that would complicate my life as a lesbian.

Thursday, August 2, 2018

Numbers Game

"InfoWars" host Alex Jones claimed yesterday that Barack Obama is "having sex with 10 dudes a day."

How ludicrous.  It's actually 20 dudes a day.

Wednesday, August 1, 2018

This Week's Quote

The Religious Liberty Task Force sounds like the shittiest Justice League ever.


Source:  Twitter

Monday, July 30, 2018


Attorney General Jeff Sessions announced today that he's creating a "religious liberty task force."

That's just how I wanted my week to start.

Wednesday, July 25, 2018

This Week's Quote

We are all here on earth to help others; what on earth the others are here for I don't know.

W.H. Auden

Source:  Brainyquote

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Reparative Repurposed

Delaware has become the 15th state to ban conversion therapy, a cruel and harmful practice.

Trying to change someone's nature is odious.  But if there's any chance it would work on Trump's base, I'm willing to reconsider.

Monday, July 23, 2018

Copping to the Fall of Civilization

Tony Perkins, head of the famously anti-gay Family Research Council, wrote a column for the group's website last week marking the 25th anniversary of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, which he argued was "the first major crack in the foundation of marriage and human sexuality."

DADT, combined with the Lawrence and Obergefell Supreme Court decisions, has led America to a place, Perkins declared, where "the Left" is busily "obliterating every moral and cultural boundary humans have ever known." The goal wasn't really same-sex marriage, but any variety of marriage, and now people are arguing for polygamy and pedophilia.

He's on to me. I can now reveal that my true goal wasn't the right to marry the woman I loved, but to legalize polygamy and pedophilia. As well as cannibalism and infanticide, because I figured go big or go home.

Thursday, July 19, 2018

The Coup

According to Right Wing Watch, conspiracy theorist Rick Wiles came up with a doozy Tuesday night on his "TruNews" television show.

First he blustered that the prominence of openly gay journalists Rachel Maddow and Anderson Cooper on TV is proof that America has been "homosexualized."

America has been made gay?  You'd think I'd have noticed that.

When Maddow said on her show that America must start to prepare for "the worst case scenario that Trump is compromised by Russia," she was really saying let's have a revolution, claimed Wiles.  In his estimation, a violent coup was 72 hours away.

"Be prepared that you’re going to turn on the television and see helicopters hovering over the roof of the White House with men clad in black repelling down ropes, entering into the White House. Be prepared for a shootout in the White House as Secret Service agents shoot commandos coming in to arrest President Trump. That is how close we are to a revolution. Be prepared for a mob— a leftist mob—to tear down the gates, the fence at the White House and to go into the White House and to drag him out with his family and decapitate them on the lawn of the White House."

I've never heard anything so stupid.

For starters, it will be lesbians, not men, repelling down ropes.  Transgender commandos will invite the Secret Service to play horseshoes.  Half the leftist mob won't tear down anything, unwilling to harm period aesthetics, and the other half will be too busy reinstalling a White House bikeshare station.  And the only place that Trump will be dragged is to a tutorial on how to speak English.

Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Pick your Poison

Let's play a game.  Which of the following individuals would you prefer to take over as the next president of the United States?

a)  Pence
b)  Putin
c)  Palpatine

This Week's Quote

Trump and Putin met one-on-one with only their interpreters in the room for more than two hours. Reportedly, Trump wanted to meet with Putin alone because he didn't want his advisers to see him naked, which is natural.

Jimmy Kimmel

Source:  Newsmax

Friday, July 13, 2018

Taking Turns

Today thousands upon thousands of people marched in London to protest Donald Trump.

Thank you, Great Britain.  We who regularly march on this side of the pond are grateful for the respite.

Wednesday, July 11, 2018

This Week's Quote

I have broken more Elton John records, he seems to have a lot of records. And I, by the way, I don’t have a musical instrument. I don’t have a guitar or an organ. No organ. Elton has an organ. And lots of other people helping. No, we’ve broken a lot of records. We’ve broken virtually every record. Because you know, look I only need this space. They need much more room. For basketball, for hockey and all of the sports, they need a lot of room. We don’t need it. We have people in that space. So we break all of these records. Really we do it without like, the musical instruments. This is the only musical: the mouth. And hopefully, the brain attached to the mouth. Right? The brain, more important than the mouth, is the brain. The brain is much more important.

President of the United States of America Donald Trump

Source: Buzzfeed

Saturday, July 7, 2018

Pride Dust-Up

Weirdness broke out at today's London Pride.  More than your average Pride weirdness, I mean.

About 10 lesbians positioned themselves at the very front of the parade and handed out leaflets saying, "The trans movement with the complicity of ‘queer’ LGBT politics is coercing lesbians to have sex with men."

Apparently British Prides don't lead with Dykes on Bikes.

These were dykes on a high horse, essentially claiming that trans women are not women.  Pressuring lesbians to have sex with trans women is a "manifestation of rape culture."

It appears their argument can be summed up as penis=male=yuck.

While I don't agree, I do share their stated concern that young lesbians whose appearance or behavior don't conform to expectations of women might be feeling pressure to transition.  Let lesbians be whoever they are.

And let trans women be whoever they are.  And may all find peace at Pride.  Except for fundamentalists with bullhorns.

Wednesday, July 4, 2018

This Week's Quote

Ninety eight percent of the adults in this country are decent, hardworking, honest Americans. It's the other lousy two percent that get all the publicity. But then, we elected them.

Lily Tomlin

Source:  Brainyquote

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Armed to the Teeth

Conspiracy theorist Alex Jones tweeted that Democrats plan to launch a Civil War on the Fourth of July.

Though I'm miffed fellow Democrats didn't inform me ahead of time, I'm ready to go into battle with the only weapon I have—fondue forks.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

This Week's Quote

Trump didn't divide America. He just doused us with gasoline and fanned the flames.

DaShanne Stokes

Source:  Goodreads

Tuesday, June 26, 2018


In a press release, the National LGBTQ Task Force criticized today's Supreme Court decision upholding President Trump's travel ban against mainly Muslim countries. The Task Force condemned the ruling as an "outright attack on freedom and liberty for Muslims. In addition, it jeopardizes the lives of LGBTQ people who may be fleeing hostile governments."

Trump celebrated the decision by issuing a coin to his penis.

Sunday, June 24, 2018

The Hoop Star and the Soccer Star

I've been waiting for this.

Since Seattle Storm star Sue Bird came out last summer and said she was dating Seattle Reign star Megan Rapinoe, I knew the mainstream Seattle media would have to get around to acknowledging the Emerald City is home to a fairy-tale Sapphic couple. 

Today's the day.  It's Pride day in Seattle, and today Bird and Rapinoe got a three-page story in the sports section of The Seattle Times, under the rainbow-lettered headline "Pride & Joy."  The paper announced, "Meet Seattle sports' newest power couple."

Reporter Stefanie Loh wrote, "Bird and Rapinoe are A-listers within their respective realms, and news that they were dating vaulted them toward the Ellen DeGeneres/Portia DeRossi stratosphere of iconography within the LGBTQ community."

Now you know, straight Seattleites—those girls got vaulted.

Pleased as I am to see this story, I'm holding out hope for an additional one.  I await the day the Times will have cause to run a story about two other athletes dating in Seattle:  a Seahawk and a Mariner.

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

This Week's Quote

It seems to me that politicians ought to use the same words as other people.

Barney Frank

Source:  Brainyquote

What a Week—and It's Only Wednesday

On Monday the White House aggressively defended its appalling policy of separating children and parents at the southwest border.  On Tuesday the U.S. withdrew from the United Nations Human Rights Council, a move expected to harm human rights—including LGBT rights—around the globe.

Donald Trump is to human rights what Lucy was to grapes.

Friday, June 15, 2018

Firing Blanks

The Advocate reports that today a federal court again refused to let President Trump's ban on transgender troops go into effect.

Judging by his recent salute of a North Korean general, Trump himself appears ready to join the military.

The question is whose.

Wednesday, June 13, 2018

This Week's Quote

In New York City, an Uber driver kicked a lesbian couple out of his car after they kissed. The real story here is that Mike Pence drives for Uber.

Conan O'Brien

Source:  Newsmax

Saturday, June 9, 2018

Trump Swoons in June

Just like last year, President Trump has refused to recognize Pride month.

I'm sorely tempted to say I refuse to recognize him.

But I can't, because he's officially the leader of my country, and in that capacity is doing mind-boggling damage to people, the planet and human decency.

No, I can't say I refuse to recognize Trump.  I actually recognize the hell out of him, see him for what he is.

A man as shallow as a kiddie pool.

Thursday, June 7, 2018

He's a Tool

I've written before about the ways I fit the lesbian stereotype, and the ways I don't.  Hardware stores fall solidly in the latter category.  I don't know a hacksaw from a jackdaw, and what's more, I don't want to.

But this morning I read about Amyx Hardware in Tennessee.  Owner Jeff Amyx put up a "No Gays Allowed" sign in 2015 after the Supreme Court legalized gay marriage, and this week he put it up again, this time to indicate his delight over the Court's Masterpiece ruling, which he views as a "great win" for Christianity.

If I lived anywhere near Washburn, Tenn., I'd shelve my disinterest in hardware, and walk into that store with the "No Gays Allowed" sign.  I wouldn't stage a sit-in.  I'd ask Jeff Amyx to explain every product in the store to me.  Then I'd prolong his pain by asking the kind of question I excel at, like, "What if someone put a pox on this epoxy?"

He'd get out of the hardware business in no time.

Saturday, June 2, 2018


Rabbi Ovadia Yosef, formerly the Sephardic Chief Rabbi of Israel, once said "homosexuals are completely evil."  This week his grandson is marrying a man.

The pleasure I take in such stories is probably wrong in every faith.

Wednesday, May 30, 2018

This Week's Quote

Just because I said that's what I want doesn't mean that I'm ready for it.

Harvey Fierstein

Source:  The Big Little Book of Jewish Wit & Wisdom

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

This Week's Quote

I really don't think I need buns of steel. I'd be happy with buns of cinnamon.

Ellen DeGeneres

Source:  Azquotes

Monday, May 21, 2018

Love and Basketball

Yesterday evening, at the first game of the season for the WNBA's Seattle Storm, I sat next to a woman who said she no longer has season tickets. She explained that she used to be one of eight lesbians, four couples, who went to games regularly together. But three of the four couples split up.

She added that one of the women, whose then-partner was away, brought the woman with whom she was having an affair to the game instead.

Sometimes there's more drama in the seats than on the court.

Thursday, May 17, 2018


A school district in Oregon is accused of forcing an LGBTQ student to read Bible passages as a form of punishment.

I don't know which passages the student was forced to read, so I'm going to guess they were from the Christian homophobe's favorite book of the Bible, Leviticus.

If so, I'm confident the student took the passages deeply to heart, and will never again lust after shellfish.

Help! Help!

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

This Week's Quote

My dad bought a self-help book on how to cope with having a gay child. My mum worried that my life would be really difficult. She had a sliding scale. I said to her, "Mum, I've got something to tell you," and she went, "You're pregnant." Then she said, "You're on heroin," and then it was like, "Oh my God, you're gay" – and I was like, "Yeah!" Being gay: one below being on heroin.

Zoe Lyons

Source:  The Independent

Monday, May 14, 2018

Leap of Faith

In his commencement address at a private Christian college in Michigan on Saturday, Vice President Pence insisted that religious faith is growing in America.

I think he's misinterpreting the fact that every time his boss opens his mouth most of America blurts, "Jesus Christ!"

Wednesday, May 9, 2018

This Week's Quote

Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.

Margaret Mead

Source:  Goodreads
Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.
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Tuesday, May 8, 2018


I received a press release whose subject line read "Anus Tightening, Penis Enlargements and Scrotum Lifting: How To Get Ready For Pride 2018."

I'll be lucky if I shave my legs.

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

This Week's Quote

People who supported a pedophile in Alabama, a sexual predator in the White House, a VP who jokes about hanging gays, apparently draw the line when Michelle Wolf jokes about eye shadow. And they call us snowflakes.

Dana Goldberg

Source:  Twitter

Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Razzle Dazzle

There's being out of the closet, and then there's cleaning the closet.  One company here in Seattle does both.

The other day a straight friend of mine showed me a slick oversized postcard she received in the mail.  It was for a company called Dazzle.  Three times on the postcard Dazzle declared itself "The Gayest Cleaning Company in America!"

How do you fact-check that claim?  Consult the Glitter Business Bureau?

Dazzle listed six reasons to choose it, reasons aimed at the average liberal Seattleite, like Dazzle uses natural cleaning products, its employees receive paid time off and the company is carbon neutral.  The final reason, though, was "We're so gay, but you don't have to be!"

That one might test the average liberal Seattleite.  At least a bit.  But using gayness as a selling point to a mass, mostly straight audience, is a sign of progress.  So, for taking the risk, I salute Dazzle the cleaning company by raising my toilet brush high.

Wednesday, April 25, 2018

This Week's Quote

How long does it take me to have my hair done? I don't know—I'm never there.

Dolly Parton

Source:  Wit

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Proud Mickey

At Disneyland and Disney World, you can now buy rainbow Mickey Mouse ears.

These rainbow ears will undoubtedly show up at Prides this June.  So it might be handy to know that a group of mice is called a mischief.

Thursday, April 19, 2018

Wednesday, April 18, 2018

This Week's Quote

If the world were a logical place, men would ride side-saddle.

Rita Mae Brown

Source:  The Book of Gay & Lesbian Quotations

Saturday, April 14, 2018

The Rainbow Connection

Guess what "spring's brightest craze" is, according to Parade magazine?  Rainbows!

The magazine declares, "You'll want to follow this trend to the end."

And they say we recruit.

Wednesday, April 11, 2018

This Week's Quote

Trump’s behavior with women is so immoral that at this point the only people who will stand by him are evangelical Christians.

Andy Borowitz

Source:  Facebook

Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Let's Ponder

Yesterday Illinois Democratic Sen. Tammy Duckworth became the first U.S. senator to give birth while in office.

I'm sure there's a reason this is such a rare event, but I can't quite put my finger on it . . .

Friday, April 6, 2018

Sage Advice

PinkNews reported on an exchange that took place yesterday at a Wisconsin medical school.

In class, the discussion turned to LGBT patients, and a student asked, "What if we don't feel comfortable treating someone following that lifestyle?"

"Find a different career," replied the professor.

And with that, the students saw their first burn victim.

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

This Week's Quote

Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted.

Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.

Source: The Independent

Monday, April 2, 2018

Masturbation Perturbation

An internet pastor has warned men against masturbating because it's "sex with a man."

Dave Daubenmire said that if a guy is being honest, "masturbation is homosexuality.  You're having sex with a man. You get it? You're putting images of a woman in your mind, but you're having sex with a man. It's where the devil will take us if we give him free range in our minds."

That means a woman who masturbates must be having sex with a woman.  Or half a cantaloupe.

Saturday, March 31, 2018


I had every intention of writing a political post yesterday evening.  But the Women's Final Four was on.  Sometimes a lesbian has to do what a lesbian has to do.

Wednesday, March 28, 2018

This Week's Quote

Actress Cynthia Nixon today announced her bid to run for New York governor, and she debuted her campaign slogan, "Nixon 2018: No Relation."

Seth Meyers

Source:  Newsmax

Tuesday, March 27, 2018


The lead story in my newspaper this morning carried one of the most frightening headlines I've ever seen:  "Trump Turns to Fox News for Staff."

Thursday, March 22, 2018

A Lesbian Looks at Astrology

I just came across an old Chinese horoscope guide.  I was born under the sign of the rabbit, so the guide advised me to marry a boar, a ram or a dog.  The guide also told me to "forget mating with a cock."

That's a deal I can make.

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

This Week's Quote

It is not true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over and over.

Edna St. Vincent Millay

Source:  Modern American Wit & Wisdom

Monday, March 19, 2018

The Pluck of the Irish

Vice President Mike Pence was in Savannah on Saturday, marching in the largest St. Patrick's Day parade in the South.  He laid eyes on many a protester, whose signs included "Erin Go Home, Brah!"

Apparently these mischievous protesting leprechauns made sure that every picture of Pence had a Pride flag in the background. That proves it:  Rainbows lead to gold.

Wednesday, March 14, 2018

This Week's Quote

A mother and a little boy were walking along, and I could tell the minute the recognition hit the little boy. As he walked by holding his mother's hand, he said in a real loud voice, "Look, Mother. There goes an old Gomer Pyle."

Jim Nabors

Source:  Brainyquote

Tuesday, March 13, 2018

Dr. Melvyn

A Toronto psychiatrist who specializes in gay conversion therapy has been found guilty of sexually abusing two of his male patients. Dr. Melvyn Iscove was described by the committee that decided his case as having a "special interest in the treatment of patients with problems related to homosexuality."

In other words, Step into my parlor said the self-loathing spider to the anguished flies . . .

Thursday, March 8, 2018


An Imam in Uzbekistan recently claimed that if you fantasize about strangers during sex you will have a homosexual baby.

Rahmatulloh Saifutdinov preached that some Uzbek women are fantasizing about "handsome Turkish soap opera actors" while having sex with their husbands, which could lead to the woman becoming pregnant with a gay baby boy.

Men, he added, "are not allowed to imagine another beautiful woman when they are having sexual intercourse with their wives, because this may lead to the birth of a lesbian child."

If people believe him, there'll be nobody having sex in Uzbekistan anymore.  Except the gays.

Wednesday, March 7, 2018

This Week's Quote

In fact, of the nine best picture nominees only two made more than $100 million. But that's not the point. We don't make films like "Call Me by Your Name" for money. We make them to upset Mike Pence.

Oscar host Jimmy Kimmel

Source:  CNN

Saturday, March 3, 2018

Response to Roy

Roy Moore is asking people to send him money.  The peerless homophobe faces big legal fees as a result of a lawsuit brought by the woman who says he molested her when she was 14 and he was 32.

I've responded to Moore's request.  At this very moment my thoughts and prayers are winging their way to Alabama.

Wednesday, February 28, 2018

This Week's Quote

I'm here today because I hated everything else.

Wanda Sykes

Source:  BrainyQuote

Tuesday, February 27, 2018

America's Guardians

President Trump says he would've rushed into a Florida high school to save the students and teachers from a gunman with an assault weapon, so I say we take him up on that. He should resign the presidency, pick a school and stand outside it.

And Vice President Pence should do the same with a gay bar.

Monday, February 26, 2018

Olympian Achievements

The Winter Olympics concluded yesterday, and I know some Americans are upset that the U.S. brought home the fewest medals in 20 years.

Personally, I'm still reveling in the great moments. That women's hockey final was one of the most dramatic games I've seen in any sport. And because I come from an area that produces many winter athletes, I was thrilled to see American women take cross-country gold for the first time, even as I know much of America thinks cross country is only slightly more exciting than ironing.

But the best part of the Games for me was the clear presence of gay Americans. Openly gay Olympians Adam Rippon and Gus Kenworthy both criticized our vice president for his homophobia. Rippon was honest and sassy in interviews; Kenworthy kissed his boyfriend on live TV, and the world saw it.

And then there was Johnny Weir, the figure skater turned commentator, whose dramatic outfits, make-up, ever-changing hairstyles and snark earned him a gold medal in meeting and surpassing a gay stereotype. His in-your-face fabulousness must've worked for NBC, since they assigned him not just the skating but the closing ceremonies as well.

The Pyeongchang Games are over, but the Rippon/Kenworthy/Weir effect will ripple on. Just ask Mike Pence.

Thursday, February 22, 2018

Florida Fear

I just read how survivors of the Pulse nightclub massacre met with survivors of the Parkland high school shooting.

I'm not one to get nostalgic for the good old days, but there's no denying that when people used to speak of being united by terror in Florida they meant hurtling down Space Mountain with a friend.

Wednesday, February 21, 2018

This Week's Quote

She’ll do what she has to do. She’s not the worst wing woman.

Sam Greisman tweeting about his mother, Sally Field, trying to set him up with Adam Rippon

Source:  Boston Globe

Monday, February 19, 2018

Fail to the Chief

It's Presidents' Day.  Damn but it's hard for me to honor the current occupant of the White House, since I think he's a lying, divisive, narcissistic, adulterous, uncaring, erratic, delusional, incompetent, dangerous, opportunistic, racist, misogynistic, shallow, manipulative, transphobic, ignorant, corrupt, xenophobic, self-serving, bullying and traitorous embarrassment of a president.

Otherwise he's just swell.

Friday, February 16, 2018

Reaching Olympic Heights

Openly gay Olympic freestyle skier Gus Kenworthy broke his thumb during practice. He still plans to compete, he tweeted yesterday, "but it does prevent me from shaking Pence's hand so . . . silver linings!"

He went to Pyeongchang a world-class freestyler, he'll leave a world-class shade-thrower.

Thursday, February 15, 2018

Lush Harvest

I just spotted a bumper sticker I've never seen before:  "Resistance is fertile."

Certainly there's no one who spreads manure like Donald Trump.

Wednesday, February 14, 2018

This Week's Quote

But I think right now the Olympics are about Olympic competition and the athletes involved.  I don't want to distract from their Olympic experience, and I don't want my Olympic experience to be about Mike Pence. Um, you know I want it to be about my amazing skating and, um, being America's sweetheart.

Adam Rippon

Source:  CNN

Thursday, February 8, 2018

Pair Spin

Regarding this alleged spat between openly gay figure skater Adam Rippon and Vice President Mike Pence, I give it a high score for execution and artistry, but Mike Pence gets a deduction for being Mike Pence.

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

This Week's Quote

In South Korea, the Winter Olympics start Thursday. Vice President Mike Pence will be there for opening ceremonies but is leaving after that so he doesn't have to see the biathlon—he believes that athlons should be between one man and one woman.

Jimmy Kimmel

Source:  Newsmax

Monday, February 5, 2018

Copacetic Commercials

Several ads during yesterday's Super Bowl stressed that American diversity is a good thing. Regarding the LGBT part of the diversity equation, Kraft showed gay couples, T-Mobile said to love who you want, and Coke referred to "them" while showing a non-binary person.

I was so surprised I blurted "Them," and showered myself in guacamole.

I have no idea if that was the first mainstream television ad to use the gender-neutral pronoun, but geez, it ran during the Super Bowl. A zillion people saw it. Even if most of the zillion were too drunk or in too deep a carb coma to grasp what they were seeing, they still saw it.

These inclusive ads were a thumb to the nose to President Divisive and his base. In the age of Trump, America is not the inclusive nation of those ads. But it might be in the future. If the Eagles can beat the Patriots, anything can happen.

Wednesday, January 31, 2018

This Week's Quote

Senator Chuck Schumer, the leader of his chamber’s Democratic minority, said that negotiating with Trump was like negotiating with Jell-O. Food-wise, he gave the president the benefit of the doubt. Trump is squishier, and far less innocuous. Negotiating with him must be like negotiating with sour cream.

Frank Bruni

Source:  The New York Times

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Color Me Angry

A friend and I were talking this morning about the handful of Democratic Congressmen who are choosing to boycott Trump's State of the Union speech tonight. She asked me if I were in Congress what I would do to register displeasure with our president.

I said I'd wear a rainbow armband, in protest of all the hurt he's caused the LGBT community in one year. She liked that idea, and said I'd need to wear a black armband, too, to protest his racism.

I realized I'd have to wear a green armband as well, to acknowledge his trashing of the planet. And a red, white and blue armband to represent the hurt he's put on American institutions. In fact, I thought, with so much to protest where Trump is concerned, I'd walk into the House of Representatives looking like a piƱata.

Thursday, January 25, 2018

Onward Christian Soldiers

Yesterday the U.S. Senate confirmed renowned homophobe Sam Brownback as ambassador for international religious freedom. Equally renowned homophobe Mike Pence cast the tie-breaking vote.

Brownback was an evangelical Christian who converted to Catholicism. Pence was a Catholic who converted to evangelical Christianity.

I sure wish in the process they had just cancelled each other out.

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

This Week's Quote

Hundreds of thousands of women across the country this weekend participated in the second Women’s March to protest President Trump’s policies. [shows photo of crowd holding signs]. And what better way to attack Trump than with exercise and reading.

Seth Meyers

Source:  Newsmax

Saturday, January 20, 2018

The Golden Rule 2.0

Before heading out for the Women's March 2.0 this morning, my sister Kim and brother-in-law Paul and I paused for this photo. Kim had made signs last night after searching the internet for slogan suggestions, and I'm here to tell you she hit the jackpot. Lots of people wanted to take a picture of the sign she's holding in this photo.  I guess many in Seattle like a good pun. Certainly many in Seattle strongly prefer the Golden Rule to the Tangerine Twit.